A quick update

I’m no longer friends with Tim. I was gonna make a big post about it, but I’ve already said all I really want to say about him in the last post.

That forced me to come out to my mom as bisexual, since he’s probably going to tell her anyway, just to spite me.

I sent her an email. I’m waiting to hear back from her.

Funny, it was about this time of year when I told her I was an atheist.

I will update you on that situation as the drama unfolds.

Well, we’ll see what happens.

 

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Goodbye, Tim

Goodbye, Tim

I’m sorry this hurts you.

You hurt me, too.

With your disgust,

With your abusive, manipulative ways.

Goodbye, Tim

I miss you.

 

 

 

Author’s note: Goddamnit that hurt to write. I’m crying right now. I’m no longer friends with the guy I refer to as Tim in this blog. I might put a post up about it soon.

In the meantime, here are some of my old posts about Tim.

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Wait

she pops the big white pill
a few gulps of water
the little blue one is next
under the tongue it goes

wait.
wait.
wait.

Wait for it to dissolve
Wait for the changes
Wait

Why don’t people take me seriously?

so, at work, I’ll say something completely serious, and people will treat it as a joke.

In response to some random bullshit, I said, “Locking people up without their consent is wrong.”

People laughed. They said I had a weird sense of humor. “Dark, too.”

I wasn’t joking.

In conversation later, some guy asked why women never “give it to you when you want it, and are always trying to give it to you when you don’t”

I responded, “because you aren’t entitled to anything.”

And people laughed. I don’t know why.

Later on, someone made a quip about the guy waiting outside for one of the waitstaff.

He said that it, “wasn’t her husband or her baby-daddy, it was her boyfriend, she just doesn’t want anyone to know.”

I responded, “Well with how polyamoury is treated in this society, it’s understandable why most people would want to keep it to themselves.”

Again, laughter.

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Untitled Poem

Your naked body next to mine

I breathe in your scent

As we slowly

drift

to sleep

 

 

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Moral Quandary

Another thing happened tonight at work. A card was going around, to be signed for the parent’s of the girl who died from driving while fucked up. What was the quandary you ask? Well, the card was religious in nature, and said that we’d be keeping them in our prayers. This is fucked up for several reasons. I have no idea if they are religious or not. If they aren’t it’d be a slap in the face. If they are, no problem. Another problem is, it forced me to choose between being honest, and doing something to comfort someone.  It felt very wrong to sign my name to that as an atheist. I could have not signed it, but that would have been selfish. No one should be put in that position.

So, please, if you are going to bring a card around for people to sign for a victim’s family, make it secular in nature. Not everyone is a believer.

 

 

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Bullshit—> “transphobic feminists are a tiny minority of feminism”

So, I’ve been hearing this lately, “Transphobic feminists are a tiny minority of feminism,” mostly from liberal cis feminists. Bullshit. And if you’re cis and you say this, Fuck you that isn’t for you to decide.

1. When 10000 cis women are attending Michigan womyn’s fest, don’t tell me that transphobic feminists are a tiny minority. [source]
2. Most cis people are transphobic, why should we expect the subset of Feminists to be any different. Just because most of them don’t make it their main talking point, doesn’t mean that they aren’t transphobic.
3. I will accept that only a tiny minority are actively making it their business to attack trans women, but I do not accept that only a tiny minority are transphobic.

 

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